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ck4me.jjb	so i just got back from a blind date		Lead	[-]
Posts: 2931 06/21/09 10:21 PM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	Tags : None hey guys! so i was inspired by emi's bravery and decided to check out eharmony.com. i haven't had a romantic life in ages, so i figured i'll just try it out for a month or two since nothing else was happening to me out in the "real" world. i haven't told a single soul that i'm doing this! so anyway, i just came back from lunch with this guy. he's very nice but extremely...uh, average. we got along very well and surprisingly i wasn't nervous. but there just wasn't any excitment or fun to our conversation and it was a little odd how much he kept looking at me. and i maybe i've been single for too long so i'm not used to guys being so courteous and nice to me, but there were some small things that he did that made me uneasy. like he wanted to take an olive off my plate, and he wanted to share his dessert. oh, and he was kinda giving me mini life lessons about stuff that i should be doing for myself. all in all, if he wanted to hang out again, that would be fine. but i dunno, i just wasn't feeling it, you know?! ..sigh...i wish i was ballsy-er when i was younger. i could have approached guys and have done all this dating stuff back then and not have to worry about figuring it out now! Last Edited By: ck4me 06/22/09 12:19 AM. Edited 2 times.
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Kapuahone		#1	[url]	[-]
Posts: 1368 06/21/09 11:59 PM *"Lance's Hawaiian Wahine"*	Well congrats on taking that first step and giving it a shot! The more you go out with guys the easier it'll get. So maybe this guy won't pan out, at least you gave it a try! When you have an hour to spare, go here: http://www.thebaubshow.com/ and listen to the The Baub Show: Sizzle and I tackle relationships. Bob had a special show tonight where his old friend (and ex-girlfriend!) co-hosted and they talked a lot about dating and being in a relationship. There was a lot of interesting stuff covered and a lot that I could relate to, I think you could as well.
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ck4me.jjb		#2	[url]	[-]
Posts: 2931 06/22/09 2:07 PM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	oh thanks for the link...i'll try to check it out later this week! as for this guy, i thought and thought about it and the bottom line is, i just didn't have fun, so why put myself through that again? ha ha, i mean he's super nice but that's just not enough for me. oh, there's this other guy that seemed pretty cool...so i stupidly gave him my number. but then he found me on facebook and sends me texts all the time. in fact, he just sent me one not that long ago...at like 7:45 am telling me to have a good day. wtf?! i was gonna put, DUDE you need to chill. but decided not to even respond at all. i'll probably cut him off later this week, LoL. that'll be fun!
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Kapuahone		#3	[url]	[-]
Posts: 1368 06/22/09 5:12 PM *"Lance's Hawaiian Wahine"*	It sounds like the date I went on with the short guy. He was really nice but we just didn't click. My mom was like "just go out with him again, give him another chance, you never know" but I don't see the point in that. If you don't feel it's right it's best to just move on instead of dragging it on and making him think you're interested when you're not. The second guy sounds like a desperate loser. That's a really big turn off when they're that needy from the beginning! Especially when you haven't even met him yet! Big red flag there. As for me, I just found a guy on match that caught my eye. I winked at him...we'll see if he replies.
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Posts: 2931 06/22/09 6:19 PM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	ha ha, yeah...Mr. Texter is always saying stuff like, I just got back from the gym...Or i'll be at the gym later. so i'm wondering, maybe he used to be a fatty?! LoL! and that's why he's so eager to talk and date?!
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Posts: 2931 06/26/09 4:42 AM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	okay, so i told that guy (the one i had lunch with on saturday) that i just didn't think we were a good match. i mean, we got along well and had lots in common, but there was no spark and i didn't think we were vibing, cuz he's kinda shy and i'm a very loud person! lol. i was willing to go out again to give it a try to see how things would be as we got more comfortable with each other, but the more i thought about it there were lots of little things that irritated me. so i told him that i'm a very silly person and that i thought he would do better with somone more mature and had their act together. he wrote back and said that he's got a really playful side and just needs to get to know me better first before he lets loose. and to prove it, he sent me this link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p84IadIgmuI apparently he's made several youtube vids, so i browsed through them. i'll admit they're kinda funny and pretty cute, and it gave me a good insight into others parts of his life....but i'm still not interested in seeing him again! lol.
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Kapuahone		#6	[url]	[-]
Posts: 1368 06/27/09 12:28 AM *"Lance's Hawaiian Wahine"*	Oy...that vagina song video was kind of disturbing. Yeah I'd NEXT him.
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Posts: 2931 06/27/09 12:38 AM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	omg!! you saw that, huh?! LMAO...i know, i was like: PAAASSS! lol! oh, and did you see his hike up the Haiku trail (stairway to heaven) with his gf at the time? did you see what he did at the very top?! omg!
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Kapuahone		#8	[url]	[-]
Posts: 1368 06/27/09 12:51 AM *"Lance's Hawaiian Wahine"*	No I didn't watch that one. From your comment it makes me think I don't want to see it!
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ck4me.jjb		#9	[url]	[-]
Posts: 2931 06/27/09 1:48 AM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	lol! well, it's not gross or anything. just shocking and kinda funny. it's sooo totally something a boy would do!
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Kapuahone		#10	[url]	[-]
Posts: 1368 06/27/09 2:14 AM *"Lance's Hawaiian Wahine"*	I saw it. He does not have a nice body.
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Posts: 2931 06/27/09 11:27 PM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	lmao! yeah, well, he's WAY skinnier now. anywho, i almost felt bad for not giving him a chance and was thinking about sending him message, but decided not to prolong it. i ended up going out with The Texter. i swear, i was gonna cancel cuz on thursday he kept asking me stuff, and i'm like, DUDE, just wait till we hang out on saturday! then this morning (BEFORE it was even 8:00) he's like, I'm looking forward to our lunch. ugh. i guess i'm big ol' meanie cuz others mayfind that to be sweet, but i just found it to be irritating. as it turns out, i had a nice time and he's actually quite normal! just a very outgoing and friendly guy, hence all the texts. i was super comfortable, and cuz he's from the big island, he's very "local style." i felt like i was talking story with one of my guy friends. no "spark" but worth hanging out again just for fun. the only thing that kinda threw me off is that he seems kinda racist...and his neck is super short, so it looks like his head is just resting on top of his shoulders! lol. oh, i'm sooo picky!
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Posts: 2931 07/01/09 2:36 PM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	so i'm meeting this new guy on sunday...he claims to be super shy which i don't really like, and he seems pretty mellow (like, he's an indoors kind of guy and hardly drinks or goes to bars). i'm thinking that this won't be a good match, but he's so darn cute. i'm just gonna have to make an exception! and who knows, i might be able to bring his fun side out a little more!
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Kapuahone		#13	[url]	[-]
Posts: 1368 07/01/09 10:02 PM *"Lance's Hawaiian Wahine"*	Look at you, going on all these dates! Maybe I do need to move back home to meet more guys.
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Posts: 2931 07/01/09 10:19 PM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	blushes hee hee, yeah, this is sooo bizarre to me. i've never casually dated before, but so far i'm having fun. i mean, the first 2 ones were totally nerve wrecking...but this one that's coming up, i'm actually looking forward to! lol. for the first guy, the spazzy one, i actually walked past him to get a look first, before i went back to introduce myself! Last Edited By: ck4me 07/02/09 9:50 PM. Edited 1 time.
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Posts: 619 07/02/09 6:39 PM *"JBrokeLance"*	Awww... I hope third times the charm with the next date Taryn!
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Posts: 2931 07/02/09 9:51 PM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	aw thanks! i'll tell you guys all about it on sunday when we chat!!
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Posts: 619 07/03/09 7:50 PM *"JBrokeLance"*	Your icon is breaking my heart, Taryn. :(
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Posts: 2931 07/04/09 9:16 PM *"Pupule 4 Chris"*	...yeah, i know :( people think i've been cuckoo for mourning mj's death, especially since he was such a "wacko" toward the end, but i've always loved him and will continue to! hee hee...i'm so dorky!
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milf15.jjb		#19	[url]	[-]
Posts: 815 07/05/09 10:50 AM	ok.. so I just reread this whole thing and yeah.. I'm glad you are both getting back out there! Emi hows everything going with yours? Taryn, I had to laugh at the guy with no neck.. I swear I'm really picky with that too.
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Kapuahone		#20	[url]	[-]
Posts: 1368 07/05/09 12:41 PM *"Lance's Hawaiian Wahine"*	Oh God don't ask. I haven't met anyone new, none of the guys who've been winking/emailing me are even remotely my type. I had a 56 year old email me! Eewww!! I don't know what to do now...
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